Compass Risking the loss of family honor, an Egyptian Christian couple last week went public with their daughters sudden disappearance under questionable circumstances. After highlighting 21-year-old Heba Nabil Narouz Ghali in missing persons reports in the newspaper and over national television on November 10 and 11, the Ghali family has identified a Muslim man whom they are accusing of kidnapping their daughter seven weeks ago.
A November 10 article in the weekly El-Wafd newspaper stated that the young woman was last seen on September 28 leaving work at a local Hyper supermarket in Sheikh Zayid, a suburb of Cairo . The Ghali family also released their daughters picture and a request for information in a November 11 broadcast on TV Channel Three.
In an interview with Compass, the missing womans father, Nabil Narouz Ghali, said that when his daughter failed to return from work by 10 p.m. on September 28, the family telephoned Hyper supermarket, where their daughter had been working since February. Supermarket staff said that the Christian woman had left work as usual on the 8:30 p.m. service bus.
When the Ghalis went to the supermarket the next day, however, they were told she had resigned. Moreover, her co-workers and supervisor gave them conflicting reports about when she had resigned.
Heba Ghalis co-workers told them that she gave notice two days prior and claimed that their supervisor would not be at the supermarket until 5 p.m. that evening. But inside the store, the couple came face to face with the supervisor, who stated that their daughter had resigned only the day before.
While we were there, one of my daughters friends, who claimed to be a Christian, came up to me and told me Your daughter has embraced Islam, Nabil Ghali told Compass. Later we found out that this girl was not really a Christian.
Pursuing this claim, Nabil Ghali contacted his parish priest. The clergyman checked with a colleague involved in government-required counseling sessions for Christians considering conversion to Islam.
But neither of the Coptic clerics could learn anything about Heba Ghalis supposed conversion.
After the required 24-hour waiting period, Nabil Ghali reported his daughters disappearance to police at the October Sixth city station two days after she went missing.
The officer on duty first called an informer in Sheik Zayid, who claimed that Heba Ghali had often been seen in the company of veiled Muslim friends. He then refused to file a kidnapping report and instead reported the girl missing.
The policeman also visited the Hyper supermarket and returned with the missing womans work resignation. The document, shown to Compass, contained neither the required signature nor stamp of the supermarket manager.
Although the Ghali family protested that the handwriting on the resignation was not the same as that on Heba Ghalis work application, the police refused to have the papers examined by a handwriting expert.
It was not actually necessary to check with a handwriting expert, the Ghali familys lawyer, Athanasius William, commented. Its obvious the handwriting on the two documents is very different.
She had a good relationship with the whole family, Nabil Ghali told Compass. She wouldnt have run away from us, and she never mentioned to us that she had any Muslim friends.
With her father facing health problems, her younger brother still in school and her older sister married, Heba Ghali was one of the main breadwinners in her family.
The Ghali family showed Compass a handwritten letter that they received five days after their daughters disappearance.
Full of insults and obscenities, the letter stated that their daughter had had an affair with a man named Mahmoud Mustafa Ali and had eloped with him. It included Alis cellular and landline telephone numbers and urged the family to reclaim their daughter.
Nabil Ghali called Ali, who reportedly admitted that he had met Heba while delivering products to the supermarket where she worked. But he claimed to have no knowledge of the missing womans whereabouts.
Tracing Alis address through the telephone company, Nabil Ghali enlisted the help of a Muslim friend and went to visit Ali on November 10.
The two men did not find Ali at home but were told by his former wife that Heba Ghali had converted to Islam and married him. The wife claimed to have divorced Ali before he and his new bride moved to Upper Egypt , Nabil Ghali said.
The next day, a source in the police force told Ghali that his daughter had converted to Islam at Cairo s Al-Azhar Islamic center.
The girl is over 21. She has the right to marry and convert without her familys permission, William, the familys lawyer, told Compass. But they do have a right to confirm that the conversion and marriage were done legally and of their daughters free will.
No one supports me, not the priest, not anyone, Nabil Ghali said through teary eyes. I just want my daughter back. Shes a good girl.
On November 13, the Ghali family acquired a copy of Heba Ghalis conversion certificate, dated September 28, through a contact in the police force. They plan to check with several priests involved in pre-conversion counseling sessions to confirm the documents authenticity.
Lawyer William also plans to file a kidnapping report against Ali next week.
This means that, legally, the police have to produce the girl and bring her to see her family, he commented.
But William was quick to point out that even if the Ghali family does get to see their daughter, they may never uncover the truth of her disappearance.
Such meetings always take place in the police station, and the girl is usually veiled and surrounded by men and police officers. [Of all similar situations in the past] I only know of one where the girl had the courage to say that she was taken by force. [Go To Full Story]